They Gave the Indians Blankets Laced with Smallpox.

I found two of these plates at the Goodwill years ago. They hold an electric, magnetic charge. They were the Amherst College dining hall plates into the 1970s. Into the 1970s. It is a dark, rueful pleasure to use them. Memento mori.

Photo from: Peter d’Errico, “Jeffery Amherst and Smallpox Blankets: Lord Jeffery Amherst’s letters discussing germ warfare against American Indians,” 2001, 2019. Accessed on October 19, 2019, at https://people.umass.edu/derrico/amherst/lord_jeff.html

Blessed Are the Trodden

Blessed are the trodden, with their faces in the dirt,
Who process what the rest refuse to see.

The thing most do not know
Is that without exception each must deal with their own shit–
Ain’t no way another can take your load.

Neither cash nor coercion can contract that labor out.

Codependency

Codependency is the unspoken and largely unconscious agreement to tolerate and even help sustain another person’s continuation of not addressing issues and problems they need to address, in exchange for that person’s tolerance and sustaining of your own continuation of not addressing issues and problems you need to address.